I’m at the moment in degree 3 lock down and have been saving throughout this time for a brand new automotive. Since my older sister is now not residing with us and we do not have a automotive proper now. I’m 17, nonetheless in class and desirous to hopefully purchase a automotive mid February 2022. Currently my mum has been taking my cash and loaning it off to kinfolk who’ve drug and alcohol issues, she makes use of my cash for her personal alcohol. When I’ve advised her I will not lend cash for alcohol, playing or medicine in any respect. She ought to know this by now. however simply at this time she gambled over $200. It might not look like a lot and that’s the reason I really feel like I am being a bit dramatic for feeling upset. Please inform me I’m. I could also be sufficiently old to grasp my emotions by now however I genuinely do not know and have nobody else to ask. This is not the primary time this has occurred however I are likely to brush it off and say “its okay mum” as a result of arguments in our household can turn into violent at instances. Why is it so exhausting to depart my cash alone? I assist with no matter she wants meals, payments, clothes for my youthful siblings. I purchase my very own issues as properly so its not an excessive amount of of pressure on her financially. I am so confused 🙁 Any sort of recommendation might be tremendously appreciated!!